As an old gentleman walked into a super market, he noticed a small girl crying loudly. She was no older than 2 and was trying to persuade her mom to buy her something she wanted. Her mom just said calmly – “Jennifer, relax.”
The girl immediately started crying even louder. Again, her mom said – “Jennifer, relax.”
By now, the girl had started screaming and was attracting a lot of attention. This time, her mom said calmly – “Jennifer, you don’t want to create a scene in the supermarket. So, relax.”
The man walked to the mom and said – “I am amazed at how calm you are. But, surely, she can’t understand what you’re saying, can she?”
“What makes you think I was talking to her?” – the mom replied.
The quality of your communication with the world determines your impact, but it is the quality of your communication with yourself that determines your happiness. The impact made without happiness is akin to an artificial flower – looks good from a distance but lacks the substance and aroma that makes a flower special.
So, let’s communicate better with ourselves and remember to treat ourselves with infinite patience and kindness.
And, of course, the next time you find yourself in a situation that tests your patience, remember.. “Jennifer, relax".
The girl immediately started crying even louder. Again, her mom said – “Jennifer, relax.”
By now, the girl had started screaming and was attracting a lot of attention. This time, her mom said calmly – “Jennifer, you don’t want to create a scene in the supermarket. So, relax.”
The man walked to the mom and said – “I am amazed at how calm you are. But, surely, she can’t understand what you’re saying, can she?”
“What makes you think I was talking to her?” – the mom replied.
The quality of your communication with the world determines your impact, but it is the quality of your communication with yourself that determines your happiness. The impact made without happiness is akin to an artificial flower – looks good from a distance but lacks the substance and aroma that makes a flower special.
So, let’s communicate better with ourselves and remember to treat ourselves with infinite patience and kindness.
And, of course, the next time you find yourself in a situation that tests your patience, remember.. “Jennifer, relax".
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